Quotes that screams for me

“I need to learn to recognize and identify these danger signs when I see them, and not brush them off as "eccentricities," "lovable oddities," or "a sign that he s crying out for help and the comforting of a codependent nurturer that only I, can provide. Bad boyfriends don't disguise themselves; their girlfriends do it for them. ” 

- Laurie Notaro




“The movies make the brooding guy the hero – the guy with problems the guy who carries a gun, the gun with unresolved anger, the guy with a chip on his shoulder, the guy who’s a vampire – and they tell you that you can have the mythical happy ending with that same brooding guy.
But in reality, the brooding guy is cranky. He doesn’t reply to emails. He doesn’t call. He’s only half there when you’re talking to him, and he doesn’t chase you when you run. You feel insecure all the time. You get needy and sad and you hate yourself got being needy.

If you don’t know why he’s brooding, you’re shut out.

And if you do know why he’s brooding, you’re still shut out. (Because he’s busy brooding.)”

-E. Lockhart




“So I put up with bad behavior in the name of loving the way I thought you were supposed to love.”

-Deb Caletti


It has always been a constant rivalry between me and his pride. I never won. Im done being a loser. Maybe its meant to be this way.. to be this hard and frustrating at the same time. Maybe all i need to do is to raise the white flag and get over it, but instead Im here stuck and all I do is rant because the truth is I fear to choose any of the options thats playing in my head.